Taylor Swift’s ‘You’re Shedding Me’ Lyrics Element Devastating Breakup Amid Joe Alwyn Cut up

Taylor Swift has launched a brand new vault observe titled “You are Shedding Me,” and followers are questioning if the lyrics are providing a window into her relationship and up to date breakup with ex-boyfriend Joe Alwyn. The music was the second of two new releases this Friday together with “Hits Completely different,” and new variations of two unique songs from the album: “Karma” that includes Ice Spice and “Snow on the Seaside” with prolonged Lana Del Rey vocals.

In “You are Shedding Me,” Swift sings she’s like a “phoenix all the time rising from the ashes, mending all her gashes,” which positively appears like post-breakup discuss.

Swift and Alwyn broke up earlier this yr simply earlier than the beginning of Swift’s Eras Tour live performance collection. She has since launched right into a relationship with musician Matt Healy, who has been at a variety of her exhibits, even acting on stage.

However the brand new tracks speaks of a tough resolution to half methods with…somebody.

You say, “I do not perceive” and I say, “I do know you do not”
We thought a remedy would come by means of in time, now, I concern it will not
Keep in mind lookin’ at this room, we cherished it ‘explanation for the sunshine
Now, I simply sit at the hours of darkness and surprise if it is time

In April, after information of the Alwyn breakup got here out, a supply instructed People, “The variations of their personalities have additionally develop into more durable to disregard after years collectively. They’ve grown aside.”

In the end, they did not “perceive” each other properly sufficient to proceed their connection, it appears. They have been collectively for six years, nonetheless, and within the pre-chorus Swift sings about the best way to decide about letting go of all the pieces she has “constructed.”

Do I throw out all the pieces we constructed or hold it?
I am getting drained even for a phoenix
All the time risin’ from the ashes
Mendin’ all her gashes
You may simply have dealt the ultimate blow

The supply additionally instructed Folks that at different instances, Swift and Alwyn had tough patches they repaired, so the lyrics could possibly be referring to the stress of whether or not or not one thing is actually over.

“They’ve had tough patches earlier than and all the time labored issues out, so buddies thought they might take a while aside [now] however ultimately come again collectively,” the supply defined. “In the end [they] weren’t the proper match for each other.”

Cease, you are shedding me
Cease, you are shedding me
Cease, you are shedding me
I am unable to discover a pulse
My coronary heart will not begin anymore for you
‘Trigger you are shedding me

[Verse 2]
Each mornin’, I glared at you with storms in my eyes
How are you going to say that you just love somebody you’ll be able to’t inform is dyin’?
I despatched you alerts and bit my nails right down to the fast
My face was grey, however you would not admit that we have been sick

One other supply instructed ET that they have been too completely different to work, but it surely was powerful to finish due to the time spent collectively.

“It was extra of Taylor’s resolution to interrupt up, however each of them realized that they weren’t fully proper for each other,” stated the supply. “They’d been collectively for such a very long time and have been spending a lot time collectively, however their personalities have been simply too completely different. Joe is extra introverted, shy, and quiet.”

And the air is thick with loss and indecision
I do know my ache is such an imposition
Now, you are working down the hallway
And you understand what all of them say
“You do not know what you bought till it is gone”

Later within the bridge, Swift sings she’s the “smartest thing at this celebration” and one among their final appearances collectively was at a Grammys afterparty.

How lengthy may we be a tragic music
‘Til we have been too far gone to carry again to life?
I gave you all my finest me’s, my limitless empathy
And all I did was bleed as I attempted to be the bravest soldier
Preventing in solely your military, frontlines, do not you ignore me

I am one of the best factor at this celebration (You are shedding me)

However one of many largest clues about Alwyn was the road proper after:

And I would not marry me both

In a 2022 interview for WSJ. Magazine, Alwyn made a uncommon touch upon the questions on his relationship with Swift — and their rumored engagement.

“If I had a pound for each time I feel I have been instructed I have been engaged, then I might have lots of pound cash,” he stated. “I imply, the reality is, if the reply was sure, I would not say, and if the reply was no, I would not say.”

Round their breakup, sources instructed Folks that Swift and Alwyn have been “speaking about marriage as not too long ago as a couple of months in the past.”

Clearly, issues went a distinct method.

A pathological folks pleaser
Who solely wished you to see her
And I am fading, thinkin’
“Do one thing, babe, say one thing” (Say one thing)
“Lose one thing, babe, danger one thing” (You are shedding me)
“Select one thing, babe, I bought nothing” (I bought nothing)
“To consider, until you are selecting me”

The ultimate verse through which Swift sings “Select one thing, babe, I bought nothing/ To consider, until you are selecting me” may allude to Alwyn’s alleged insecurity with the extent of fame Swift contended with.

“In the end, they each realized they weren’t on the identical web page anymore,” a supply instructed the Daily Mail. “It’s been arduous for Joe attempting to make it in Hollywood and never fairly turning into main man materials whereas relationship some of the well-known girls on the earth over the past six years. It was simpler throughout the pandemic when it was simply the 2 of them, however as soon as issues returned to regular, Taylor Swift the celebrity emerged, and their variations have been much more obvious. They actually made a go of it and tried all the pieces they might however in the end have been unable to avoid wasting the connection.”

You are shedding me
Cease (Cease, cease), you are shedding me
Cease (Cease, cease), you are shedding me
I am unable to discover a pulse, my coronary heart will not begin anymore

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Aimée Lutkin is the weekend editor at ELLE.com. Her writing has appeared in Jezebel, Glamour, Marie Claire and extra. Her first guide, The Lonely Hunter, can be launched by Dial Press in February 2022.


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